Author: Matthew Larocco
Publisher: Enlightened Publishing
ISBN:
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 55
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Book Description
Much of what we’ve “heard” about BDSM and the lifestyle is wrong. Our opinions on this lifestyle and art form are oftentimes shaped by other people who have heard something about it and perhaps embellished it to the point of perpetuating myths. The truth is that BDSM is not degrading towards women, and it’s also a concept that you will find is not “scary.” And even the “pain” that is spoken of is not the type of pain people think it is. This book is written for Doms/Masters in training. It is written for you, the average guy or gal, who doesn’t already have a closet full of leather and whips, and who really has little idea about what BDSM is besides what they’ve heard about it. What you are going to find out, is that the Dom/Master actually has the more complicated role. The master has the task of giving pleasure and discipline to the slave or sub. A great deal of what you do as a Dom will be for the benefit of a sub. You must derive pleasure from giving, have a great desire to please a partner, and not simply take what you want. Still interested? Good. Now that we know you’re a REAL master in training, one that will respect the rules, respect the slave you have power over, and follow protocol, you can begin your Dom training. Only then can you truly earn the utmost respect and admiration from your sub. In Volume 1 of this series we are going to discuss: - How to think and act like a Dom - What the slave expects from you - What not to do and what instincts you do NOT want to follow - Your motivation and your goals - How to find out a sub’s taboo - How to negotiate, find agreement and ensure that game play is always safe - How to make a slave yearn for you and desire to be controlled by you - And much more...
Author: Matthew Larocco
Publisher: Enlightened Publishing
ISBN:
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 115
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Book Description
What does it really mean to be a submissive, or sub? Much of what we see in BDSM practice, especially in the mainstream, focuses on how to become dominant and act like the ideal Dom or Master, or "Top." However, a lot of newcomers are confused as to how this works. They vaguely understand that the submissive or sub or slave is supposed to obey. But they don’t understand the emotional dynamics, or how to act like the ideal sub, or even how to enjoy the experience. That’s what this book is going to teach you: How to be a better sub, and have a happy & healthy BDSM lifestyle. Here are just some of the things you will discover in volume 1 of "Submissive's Guide To BDSM": - Why you want to experience punishment... - The science of pain & pleasure... - Type of Doms to beware of... - How to pick the right Dom just for you... - How to protect yourself from wannabe Doms and predators... - The right way to explore taboo fantasies in BDSM... - Type of limits and when & how to use them... - How to communicate with your Dom... - Common mistakes new subs make... - How to "train" your Master... - How to "fire" your Dom if it's not working out... - And much more...
Author: Matthew Larocco
Publisher: Enlightened Publishing
ISBN:
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 120
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Book Description
Being a sub means this BDSM game is really all about your pleasure. The Dom’s goal is to provide you with the pleasure you crave and send you to a higher level of eroticism through very intensive sessions of bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism. During volume 1 we talked about trust; finding a Dom you can trust and one that meets your high standards. In this book, we are going to explain how you as a sub can develop a criteria for your Dom and ensure that each session is going to be enjoyable. Here are just some of the things you will discover in volume 2 of "Submissive's Guide To BDSM": - What is your "Ideal Scene"... - How and what you should tell your Dom, when he creates the scene... - How to create a mutually beneficial relationship with your Dom... - Etiquette on being a sub for the first time... - How to enjoy the pain as a sub... - How to work with multiple Doms... - How to reach a whole zenith of pleasure... - How to make your vanilla spouse enjoy BDSM with you... - And much more...
Author: Matthew Larocco
Publisher: Enlightened Publishing
ISBN:
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 125
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"Dom's Guide to BDSM" was specifically written for Doms/Masters. In Volume 2 of this series, we’re going to focus on how to better communicate with a sub, and how to go back and forth with role playing. We’re going to teach you how to express yourself, how to read your sub and look for cues, and how to go about getting a real life BDSM relationship started. We’re also going to discuss how to train your sub accordingly and with a purpose. This is important and is an often-neglected part of the BDSM community. The highly sensationalized, “purely sexual” relationships you read about or see depicted in TV or movies is not the only type of relationship forged. Some relationships really are all about personal missions, self-improvement and getting in touch with suppressed inner feelings. We will cover this as well as the most important part of BDSM dominance—having a plan. You will learn how to be an excellent Dom and it all starts with a few simple steps. Note: If you have not read Volume 1 in this series (Dom's Guide To BDSM Vol. 1: 49 Must-Know Tips On How To Be The Perfect Dom/Master Your submissive Will Truly Respect & Admire), it is highly recommended that you do so before taking on this book.
Author: Matthew Larocco
Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
ISBN: 9781533120922
Category : Bondage (Sexual behavior)
Languages : en
Pages : 114
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Book Description
Being a sub means this BDSM game is really all about your pleasure. The Dom's goal is to provide you with the pleasure you crave and send you to a higher level of eroticism through very intensive sessions of bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism. During volume 1 we talked about trust; finding a Dom you can trust and one that meets your high standards. In this book, we are going to explain how you as a sub can develop a criteria for your Dom and ensure that each session is going to be enjoyable. Here are just some of the things you will discover in volume 2 of "Submissive's Guide To BDSM": What is your "Ideal Scene"--How and what you should tell your Dom, when he creates the scene --- How to create a mutually beneficial relationship with your Dom --- Etiquette on being a sub for the first time --- How to enjoy the pain as a sub --- How to work with multiple Doms --- How to reach a whole zenith of pleasure --- How to make your vanilla spouse enjoy BDSM with you --- And much more.
Author: Matthew Larocco
Publisher: Enlightened Publishing
ISBN:
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 120
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Book Description
One thing we can all agree on in our “safe, sane and consensual” lifestyle is that punishment must feel good. Pain must ultimately be pleasurable. And any sort of masochism or sadism must work in the context of pleasing the sub. In BDSM culture, it seems relatively easy to get the hang of the attitude, the behavior and the words. But in terms of logistics, as in how to properly discipline or punish a sub, things do get a bit more complicated. And that’s why we’re devoting this entire book on how to play right and how to punish the sub so that she likes it, rather than the Dom abusing her and violating trust—the ultimate sin in the game of discipline. We’re also going to cover some of the more “fringe” topics of BDSM, including health risks, extreme pain, unique psychological states and how you as a sub can protect yourself. This will be of crucial interest to you as a sub or switch or Dom, since it’s best to understand the logistics and motivations of both roles before you fully submit. You may also discover that as you take precautions and grow in knowledge, more extreme practices may appeal to you. At the very least, you will always know what a Dom means by some of these code words and what they imply sexually or in punishment. It’s always a good idea to stay informed and never take chances—never assume anything! Because in BDSM, assuming anything of your Dom can be a big mistake. To get truly healthy and pleasurable BDSM experience, these are the topics you surely don't want to miss!
Author: Matthew Larocco
Publisher: Enlightened Publishing
ISBN:
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 120
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Book Description
"Dom's Guide to BDSM" was specifically written for Doms/Masters. In Volume 3 of this series, we’re going to focus on advanced techniques that will set you apart from the fake/novice doms/masters who are just looking for someone to abuse. After finishing reading this book, you will be fully equipped to be the best Dom you can be. You will have complete dominance over your sub, and also have the option of helping to transform the sub into becoming the better version of herself that she really wants to be. Your knowledge as a disciplinarian, a Master, a dominant, an Alpha and a teacher, will always be a commodity and a great value that subs will find very attractive. You will a true Master that any sub will respect & admire. Here are just some of the things you will discover: - Common “Vanilla” BDSM Activities (And How To Do Them Right!) - Extreme Bondage Play - Roleplaying and Questionable Consent - How to Genital-Torture Him/Her Without Pushing Too Far - Suspension and Other Forms of Bondage - Humiliation That Turns On, Not Off - Edging and Edge Play - How to Put Your Partner in Trance - Anonymous Fun with New People - Where to Find a Quality Sub or Dom - Introducing a BDSM Element into a Vanilla Relationship - Threesomes, Orgies and Gender Neutral Sessions - And much more... Note: If you have not read Volume 1 & 2 in this series, it is highly recommended that you do so before taking on this book.
Author: Matthew Larocco
Publisher:
ISBN: 9781310925887
Category :
Languages : en
Pages :
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Book Description
What does it really mean to be a submissive, or sub? Much of what we see in BDSM practice, especially in the mainstream, focuses on how to become dominant and act like the ideal Dom or Master, or "Top." However, a lot of newcomers are confused as to how this works. They vaguely understand that the submissive or sub or slave is supposed to obey. But they don't understand the emotional dynamics, or how to act like the ideal sub, or even how to enjoy the experience.That's what this book is going to teach you: How to be a better sub, and have a happy & healthy BDSM lifestyle.Here are just some of the things you will discover in volume 1 of "Submissive's Guide To BDSM":- Why you want to experience punishment...- The science of pain & pleasure...- Type of Doms to beware of...- How to pick the right Dom just for you...- How to protect yourself from wannabe Doms and predators...- The right way to explore taboo fantasies in BDSM...- Type of limits and when & how to use them...- How to communicate with your Dom...- Common mistakes new subs make...- How to "train" your Master...- How to "fire" your Dom if it's not working out...- And much more...
Author: Matthew Larocco
Publisher:
ISBN: 9781311383730
Category :
Languages : en
Pages :
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Book Description
Much of what we've "heard" about BDSM and the lifestyle is wrong. Our opinions on this lifestyle and art form are oftentimes shaped by other people who have heard something about it and perhaps embellished it to the point of perpetuating myths. The truth is that BDSM is not degrading towards women, and it's also a concept that you will find is not "scary." And even the "pain" that is spoken of is not the type of pain people think it is.This book is written for Doms/Masters in training. It is written for you, the average guy or gal, who doesn't already have a closet full of leather and whips, and who really has little idea about what BDSM is besides what they've heard about it.What you are going to find out, is that the Dom/Master actually has the more complicated role. The master has the task of giving pleasure and discipline to the slave or sub. A great deal of what you do as a Dom will be for the benefit of a sub. You must derive pleasure from giving, have a great desire to please a partner, and not simply take what you want.Still interested? Good. Now that we know you're a REAL master in training, one that will respect the rules, respect the slave you have power over, and follow protocol, you can begin your Dom training. Only then can you truly earn the utmost respect and admiration from your sub.In Volume 1 of this series we are going to discuss:- How to think and act like a Dom- What the slave expects from you- What not to do and what instincts you do NOT want to follow- Your motivation and your goals- How to find out a sub's taboo- How to negotiate, find agreement and ensure that game play is always safe- How to make a slave yearn for you and desire to be controlled by you- And much more...
Author: Edward Boyle
Publisher: Independently Published
ISBN:
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 104
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Book Description
If you have just discovered the world of BDSM and kink and want to learn how to be the perfect Dom, then this guide is for you. But why would anyone need a book to know how to be a Dom? Well, there are many reasons. If you are going to be a good Dom and not just any Dom, you need to learn how to dominate your sub mentally, physically, and sexually. Sadly, many Doms only know about physical domination, which they don't even do well. You have likely seen porn clips where a lady is bound and the male teases, spanks, and forces himself on her. You probably seemed to like it and thought that was what being a Dom was all about. The truth is - if all you do is to tie someone to your bed and have sex with them, you cannot call yourself a Dom. As said earlier, there is more that goes into Domming than that. Luckily, this guide will take you by the hand and introduce you to all the intricacies that are involved in being a perfect Dom. You will learn how to dominate her physically, sexually, and psychologically. This is the knowledge that you won't find elsewhere. That said, let's get started...
